Turning one's attention inward reveals the 'fourth state'. The three states common to all are waking, dreaming, and dreamless sleep.
The state that these three alternating states occur in is Reality or Home or Heart or Self.
Being established in this state illiminates comparitive evaluation to another being's life.
One's activities become entireley independent of cognitive evaluation even to the one whose form is acting. Just as there is no particular interest to evaluate a stranger's actions, the interest to evaluate the actions of one's own apparent form ceases.